So I'm 16 years old. Junior in high school. Recently I've had a random feeling that I may want to do something in special forces or military. Maybe a cop or join the military. I want to feel that brotherhood and I love America so it just makes sense. Not to mention the benefits. I feel like it will turn me into a man. The only thing is of course I'm afraid of the thought of going to war because my grandpa was in WWII and he had severe PTSD. He used to tell my mom to never let us (his grandkids) go to war. Any advice on what I should do or consider? Thanks.